Dating, with Gerardo and Gerardo

  -Be polite:   You should be polite, I don't mean you can’t tell jokes, I mean, don’t be rude.    -Topics to talk: You should try to avoid some polemic topics, you’ll have time to talk about them in the future, now try to keep the conversation chill.   -No ideas for the conversation? You can try asking questions, many questions, eventually you will get the perfect topic to talk   -Listen: You must listen to your partner, it isn’t a monologue, put attention and contribute to the conversation.   -Awkward silence: If there is an awkward silence you should try to tell a pun, no matter if it is bad, you can have fun about how bad it was.   -Don’t take this date to seriously: It’s a date, not an interrogation, you have to chill, there is no way to get it wrong.    -Don’t force things:   You mustn’t force your partner to do something he/she doesn’t want to, also you should slow down, don’t go too fast, you can have more dates in the futu...

First of all you need to decide, you want something formal or informal      -Formal: A gain you have to prepare your mind, and also think in your budget, be sure you can pay for both you and your partner, it doesn’t mean you have to pay for you both but it's better to be ready for that situation.   -Informal:   This is kinda easier, you should think something that you both like to do, and then just go do it. I personally recommend this one more, it will be more enjoyable.     (Anyway you have to be sure that the place or activity you are going to do is enjoyable for your partner and you.)   Your look As a non attractive person i can give you some advice about this. -Be clean:   You MUST be clean, listen is not a problem if you are not the prettiest person in the world, you can't change your face, but you can do something about your smell.   Clothes T here is no rule for clothes, you can wear anything you like while you feel comfort...

  Ask for the date     First you have to ask that person to go on a date, but it is not as easy.     -You better already know that person:   You can’t go with some random dude and just ask for a date, if you really want to date somebody be sure you have talked to him or her, that you have things in common and that you feel comfortable together, otherwise you must have a big ¡NO! by answer.     -Be ready for the NO:   It sounds like pessimism but you should prepare your mind to that case, just think, is not that bad, you’ll meet someone, and please, do not insist, that will make the other one feel more uncomfortable.   Then...     -You’ve got the yes? Congrats buddy, now you need to think what is next.   -Gerardo Martínez